Unleash your fantasies.
Have you ever experienced the frustration of having an erotic fantasy that your partner couldn't understand?
My letter for your freedom.
Sexual expression is a vital part of who we are. Each person has unique fantasies and kinks that make up their sexual identity. Everyone should be free to explore these desires without fear of being judged or shamed. This manifesto asserts that everyone has the right to safely and consensually explore their kinks and fantasies, and it emphasizes our shared responsibility to respect each other’s choices.
Sexuality is a deeply personal part of life. It’s where we can be our truest selves, discover who we are, and connect with others meaningfully. Kinks and fantasies are not oddities; they are important and enriching parts of sexual expression. Denying someone the freedom to explore these parts of themselves is like denying them the right to be who they are.
Consent is the key to this freedom. Consent means that everyone involved agrees willingly and enthusiastically to any sexual activity. With consent, people should feel free to explore their desires without shame or fear of stigma.
Respecting each other’s kinks and fantasies means understanding that what brings pleasure to one person might seem unusual to another, but it is still valid and important. This respect is crucial for creating a society that is inclusive and compassionate.
Judgment and shaming only spread ignorance and prejudice. They can cause deep emotional harm and stop people from understanding and embracing their sexuality. By fostering respect and open-mindedness, we help create a world where individuals can express themselves freely and authentically.
Education is also important in reducing stigma. Comprehensive sex education that includes discussions about the diversity of sexual preferences can help normalize these conversations.
In conclusion, the freedom to explore one’s kinks and fantasies is a fundamental human right. This exploration, guided by consent, allows people to live joyfully and authentically. We must all commit to respecting each other’s sexual expressions without judgment. Through empathy, education, and respect for individual rights, we can build a society where everyone is free to explore and embrace their sexuality without fear or shame.
PwrX
Sexuality is a deeply personal part of life. It’s where we can be our truest selves, discover who we are, and connect with others meaningfully. Kinks and fantasies are not oddities; they are important and enriching parts of sexual expression. Denying someone the freedom to explore these parts of themselves is like denying them the right to be who they are.
Consent is the key to this freedom. Consent means that everyone involved agrees willingly and enthusiastically to any sexual activity. With consent, people should feel free to explore their desires without shame or fear of stigma.
Respecting each other’s kinks and fantasies means understanding that what brings pleasure to one person might seem unusual to another, but it is still valid and important. This respect is crucial for creating a society that is inclusive and compassionate.
Judgment and shaming only spread ignorance and prejudice. They can cause deep emotional harm and stop people from understanding and embracing their sexuality. By fostering respect and open-mindedness, we help create a world where individuals can express themselves freely and authentically.
Education is also important in reducing stigma. Comprehensive sex education that includes discussions about the diversity of sexual preferences can help normalize these conversations.
In conclusion, the freedom to explore one’s kinks and fantasies is a fundamental human right. This exploration, guided by consent, allows people to live joyfully and authentically. We must all commit to respecting each other’s sexual expressions without judgment. Through empathy, education, and respect for individual rights, we can build a society where everyone is free to explore and embrace their sexuality without fear or shame.
PwrX
Who is PwrX?
PwrX is the pseudonym I use as a performer and explorer in the BDSM world, I made it as a contraction of "Power Exchange".
I feel it describes my lifestyle and my personality very well.
The journey started in Milan in 1972 when I was born into a Catholic family that had to deal with my character from an early age. In 1984, while Steve Jobs was presenting the Mac to the world, images of a woman tied to a chair appeared on the television in my room.
I remember that moment very well and the embarrassment I felt at my erection.
Between 1984 and 1986 I devoured every philosophy and psychology book I could find, to try to better understand myself. In 1987 I remember how one day I had an epiphany: the key to everything was consensual. I thus discovered for myself one of the founding rules of BDSM.
In 1992 I had the first important relationship of my life and we explored and experimented together. In 1994 I shot the first timid digital photos of our BDSM play moments and started the blog xpain.com where a Master/slave couple recounted their adventures.
Between 1995 and 2000 there were countless parties, dinners, and meetings around Italy and abroad where I met the Italian pioneers of modern BDSM.
My partner and I were interviewed by journalists and important national magazines such as l'Espresso and Panorama published about us.
My exploration of the amazing BDSM continued for the next years, and I'm still participating in workshops, reading books, and educating myself to continue my pioneering activity.
I feel it describes my lifestyle and my personality very well.
The journey started in Milan in 1972 when I was born into a Catholic family that had to deal with my character from an early age. In 1984, while Steve Jobs was presenting the Mac to the world, images of a woman tied to a chair appeared on the television in my room.
I remember that moment very well and the embarrassment I felt at my erection.
Between 1984 and 1986 I devoured every philosophy and psychology book I could find, to try to better understand myself. In 1987 I remember how one day I had an epiphany: the key to everything was consensual. I thus discovered for myself one of the founding rules of BDSM.
In 1992 I had the first important relationship of my life and we explored and experimented together. In 1994 I shot the first timid digital photos of our BDSM play moments and started the blog xpain.com where a Master/slave couple recounted their adventures.
Between 1995 and 2000 there were countless parties, dinners, and meetings around Italy and abroad where I met the Italian pioneers of modern BDSM.
My partner and I were interviewed by journalists and important national magazines such as l'Espresso and Panorama published about us.
My exploration of the amazing BDSM continued for the next years, and I'm still participating in workshops, reading books, and educating myself to continue my pioneering activity.
I learned with.
Hua Hua
If I imagined tortures like Spanish inquisition, with Hua Hua I learn how beauty, feminine energy and sweetness can be added to shibari, making her tecnique very effective.
Giacomo Pederzani
In the early 90s, at the beginning of the internet era, Giacomo was my mentor and loyal friend, I traveled with him and participated in BDSM events all over Europe.
Fulvio Brumatti
Fulvio's work as editor of famous Italian S&M magazines and friend was a muse that inspired my fantasies and motivated my exploration of the BDSM world.
Enis Trevisi
Enis was my first Shibari master, the one who patiently showed me that even my clumsy hands could be educated to learn the noble Japanese art of knots.
Ishara Gabri
I owe it to Ishara to have shown me the power of shibari, passing on the passion and ethics that have guided me in my growth. Without her, my ropes would be soulless.
Ayreen
Ayreen besides being active as a tattoo artist and piercer, thanks to her professional background, organized the workshop I attended where I broadened my knowledge of needle play.
Maestrottanta
Fireplay is one of the most fascinating and least popular practices.
Maestrottanta is not only one of the best-known performers, also organized a workshop I participated and learned his art.
Maestrottanta is not only one of the best-known performers, also organized a workshop I participated and learned his art.
Solletilegando
When it comes to games involving extreme confinement or restriction, Solletilegando is one of the most experienced. With him, I participated in a workshop on mummification.
Sarca
Shibari means in Japanese "Tie" and can be a feather or it can be iron.
In the workshop organized by Sarca, I learned how ropes can be used ethically to punish and break the will of the bottom.
In the workshop organized by Sarca, I learned how ropes can be used ethically to punish and break the will of the bottom.
Andrea Ropes
I approached Andrea Ropes because I liked his technique and style in the performances I attended.
During his workshop, I learned how to improve my rope's control.
During his workshop, I learned how to improve my rope's control.
Stefano Re
Stefano, besides being a long-time friend, is the author of successful books such as Mindfucking and Femdom that have helped to broaden my thinking and better understand the human mind.
Ayzad
Ayzad describes himself as a coach, teacher, and author specializing in alternative sexualities. His books are part of the foundation on which my knowledge has developed.
Hajime Kinoko
Kinoko is probably the most innovative Japanese shibari artist in the world, and to participate in his workshops and become his student is an indescribable thrill.
Sacro Marte
The first time I watched a session by Sacro Marte, I was captivated by the primal connection he achieved. At his workshop, I gained valuable insights that enriched my approach to the practice.
What I can do for you.
After 35 years of exploring BDSM, I now offer you the opportunity to benefit from my experience.
Coaching
I will be a loyal and reserved friend for individuals and couples, listening and answering every question and doubt about BDSM.
With my coaching, you will be able to do the first steps in the BDSM world safely, reducing frustrations and avoiding the most common mistakes.
With my coaching, you will be able to do the first steps in the BDSM world safely, reducing frustrations and avoiding the most common mistakes.
Shibari
Shibari is the Japanese art of tying using ropes, within which there are several schools and styles.
The experience of being tied up is something wonderfully powerful, liberating, intense, and intimate at the same time. Experiencing the caress of the ropes on your skin, and abandoning yourself to them while feeling safe is the goal.
The experience of being tied up is something wonderfully powerful, liberating, intense, and intimate at the same time. Experiencing the caress of the ropes on your skin, and abandoning yourself to them while feeling safe is the goal.
Role Play
In role-playing you can become what your imagination suggests and we can forget social, moral and religious rules and write new ones: our own rules.
My ability to empathise with you and listen to you without prejudice will allow me to feed my fantasy and realise your dream for you.
My ability to empathise with you and listen to you without prejudice will allow me to feed my fantasy and realise your dream for you.
Restriction Play
The emotion of being stuck, forced into the absence of any possibility of movement, wrapped in a thin layer of plastic film that slowly, layer after layer, plunges you into a state of complete helplessness.
And then trying to wriggle out and free yourself, coming to the point of exhaustion and finally realizing that there is no possibility of escape.
And then trying to wriggle out and free yourself, coming to the point of exhaustion and finally realizing that there is no possibility of escape.
Fire Play
The ancient Greeks already identified four natural elements: water, earth, air, and fire. Fire, as the principle of life, purifies and revives primordial emotions.
Fire play requires a technique to control the flame safely, this is done through a special mixture with low calorific value and a precise ritual consisting of movements and timing.
Fire play requires a technique to control the flame safely, this is done through a special mixture with low calorific value and a precise ritual consisting of movements and timing.
Needle Play
Our skin is the barrier between the outside world and our flesh. Violating the skin by piercing it from side to side with a needle triggers the immediate release of endorphins that communicate danger to the brain. The ritual that is repeated, needle after needle, at the precise points previously traced by the pen makes this a unique experience.
Impact Play
Spanking, slapping, whipping, beating. How many different ways and instruments exist to beat your ass? How many different fantasies exist related to spanking? Spanking practices are such an important part of my exploration of alternative sex that I have whips and riding crops everywhere in my house.
Breath Play
The act of breathing has something magical and through the breath, we can induce emotional states, relax, and meditate.
We are always used to considering our breath our exclusive domain, so to suddenly realize that it is someone else who decides whether we can breathe, how much we can breathe and even how we can do it is wonderfully frightening.
We are always used to considering our breath our exclusive domain, so to suddenly realize that it is someone else who decides whether we can breathe, how much we can breathe and even how we can do it is wonderfully frightening.
Yes, sure. Without any doubts. All activities are consensual, negotiated before anything will happen and you will have a safe word to stop everything if at any time you wish to revoke your consent.
All the sessions I offer benefits of years of experience in past sessions, I also participated to many workshops. Unfortunately, as far I know, there are not specific official qualifications in any of the fields I offer sessions, for this reason I decided is better to read, partecipate all worshops is possible and to have years of experience instead to obtain a piece of paper who can't qualify me.
A safe word is a special word you can use to stop any activity at any time. The most conventional safe word is "red" but you can negotiate another word, like "pineapple" or "rosemary", a safe word can be also a gesture (like hitting the palm on the floor) if you feel difficult for you to be vocal.
If my ethics of 35 years of activity is not enough, you can ask anyone about me and I'm sure you will receive all enthusiasts' comments about my way of respecting people and their privacy.
“Kink” refers to unconventional sexual preferences, fantasies, or activities that go beyond traditional sexual practices. These can include a wide range of interests, such as bondage, role-playing, dominance, and submission, or fetishes. Kinks are highly individual and can vary greatly from person to person. Engaging in kink is about exploring and expressing one’s sexual desires in consensual and enjoyable ways. It’s important to note that all activities involving kink should be consensual, safe, and respectful of all parties involved.
“BDSM” is an acronym that stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It encompasses a variety of practices and role-playing scenarios involving consensual power exchange, physical restraint, and sensation play. Participants in BDSM engage in these activities to explore their sexual desires, often finding pleasure in the dynamics of control, power, and sensory experiences. Key to BDSM is the principle of consent, ensuring that all parties are willingly and enthusiastically participating. Safety, communication, and mutual respect are fundamental to BDSM practices.
Consent is a clear, enthusiastic, and mutual agreement to engage in a specific activity. In the context of sexual activities, including kink and BDSM, consent ensures that all participants are willingly and knowingly agreeing to what will happen. Consent should be informed, freely given, and can be withdrawn at any time. It is the cornerstone of safe and respectful interactions.
What is SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual)?
SSC stands for Safe, Sane, and Consensual. It’s a guiding principle in the BDSM community to ensure that all activities are:
• Safe: Taking steps to minimize risks and ensure the physical and emotional well-being of all participants.
• Sane: Engaging in activities that are within the bounds of reason and mental health, ensuring that everyone involved is in a clear state of mind.
• Consensual: Having the explicit agreement of all parties involved, with clear communication and understanding of the activities and their limits.
What is RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)?
RACK stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. It is an alternative to SSC, emphasizing:
• Risk-Aware: Recognizing and understanding the inherent risks involved in BDSM activities.
• Consensual: Ensuring all participants agree to the activities and understand the risks involved.
• Kink: Embracing the diverse range of non-traditional sexual practices.
RACK acknowledges that while activities may involve risks, informed consent and awareness are key to managing those risks.
What is PRICK (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink)?
PRICK stands for Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink. It focuses on:
• Personal Responsibility: Each individual taking responsibility for their own safety and actions.
• Informed: Understanding the potential risks and consequences of activities.
• Consensual Kink: Engaging in kink activities with the full, informed consent of all participants.
PRICK emphasizes the importance of personal accountability and informed decision-making in kink activities.
What is SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual)?
SSC stands for Safe, Sane, and Consensual. It’s a guiding principle in the BDSM community to ensure that all activities are:
• Safe: Taking steps to minimize risks and ensure the physical and emotional well-being of all participants.
• Sane: Engaging in activities that are within the bounds of reason and mental health, ensuring that everyone involved is in a clear state of mind.
• Consensual: Having the explicit agreement of all parties involved, with clear communication and understanding of the activities and their limits.
What is RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)?
RACK stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. It is an alternative to SSC, emphasizing:
• Risk-Aware: Recognizing and understanding the inherent risks involved in BDSM activities.
• Consensual: Ensuring all participants agree to the activities and understand the risks involved.
• Kink: Embracing the diverse range of non-traditional sexual practices.
RACK acknowledges that while activities may involve risks, informed consent and awareness are key to managing those risks.
What is PRICK (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink)?
PRICK stands for Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink. It focuses on:
• Personal Responsibility: Each individual taking responsibility for their own safety and actions.
• Informed: Understanding the potential risks and consequences of activities.
• Consensual Kink: Engaging in kink activities with the full, informed consent of all participants.
PRICK emphasizes the importance of personal accountability and informed decision-making in kink activities.
Frequently Asked Questions
Doubts? Questions? Here you can find the answers to the most common questions I receive.
Sessions feedbacks.
Here I published a collection of messages I received from people I had a session with.
Miss-Ren
"... as a dominant person myself, it is hard to let go of control. PwrX is the first person I have ever considered entrusting with that power..."
"... being tied by him was both liberating and cathartic. Beyond his extensive knowledge and experience with ropes, he placed significant emphasis on establishing a deep connection with me..."
"... being tied by him was both liberating and cathartic. Beyond his extensive knowledge and experience with ropes, he placed significant emphasis on establishing a deep connection with me..."
Sophie_Blue
"It was my first experience with shibari and i'm so glad that it was with you. Knowing that I was new to this, you adapted the ties to be both soft and intense; I felt like I could easily handle it, it wasn't painful, and also it gave me new interesting sensations."
"As if there's no need to speak, because you express yourself when you tie me, and at the same time, I let myself feel in a way that's very freeing."
"As if there's no need to speak, because you express yourself when you tie me, and at the same time, I let myself feel in a way that's very freeing."
Tibor_slave
"... I'm into pain and PwrX proposed a challenge to endure 10 minutes of bamboo predicament.
PwrX start tying slow, soft, with a lot of feeling and attention how I feel. In some minutes I was tyed up that I couldn't made any move.
PwrX escalated the pain with additional force to my body with bamboo and with ropes, I was in hell, pain was abnormal.
Suffer stopped quickly when time reached 10 min and I won the challenge, then and PwrX untied me.
It wasn't easy, but very thank you PwrX for this great experience..."
PwrX start tying slow, soft, with a lot of feeling and attention how I feel. In some minutes I was tyed up that I couldn't made any move.
PwrX escalated the pain with additional force to my body with bamboo and with ropes, I was in hell, pain was abnormal.
Suffer stopped quickly when time reached 10 min and I won the challenge, then and PwrX untied me.
It wasn't easy, but very thank you PwrX for this great experience..."
FallenPh0enix
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Miss_Scar
"... why did I decide to be tied by the one and only who is the master for my birthday party?.....There was never a second I doubted about your rope skills...Your energy was calm....the calmes person I know....that's why I really trust you... "
feetbondage
"... the decision to meet with PwrX was inevitable. The meetings were very interesting, as many things happened. I also mean what was going on in my head..."
"... all of a sudden (this hasn't happened to me in years), I had a lot of anxiety at the first meeting, which PwrX was able to eliminate..."
"... all of a sudden (this hasn't happened to me in years), I had a lot of anxiety at the first meeting, which PwrX was able to eliminate..."
M
"... you are not the rope but the one who ties the knot. You are essence, security, trust, medicine and poison. All wrapped up in one person: YOU!..."
Hearmemoan
".. it was the first time for me, experiencing Shibari in full force and I wouldn’t have it any other way, but to experience it with PwrX.
He was very professional, understanding and accommodating throughout the whole session.
The experience by itself was freeing for body, mind and soul and something I have never experienced before.
I would recommend it to anyone that wants to push their limits and explore their boundaries in a new and unconventional way..."
He was very professional, understanding and accommodating throughout the whole session.
The experience by itself was freeing for body, mind and soul and something I have never experienced before.
I would recommend it to anyone that wants to push their limits and explore their boundaries in a new and unconventional way..."
kira2121
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Natasha
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Ishara
"... as his teacher, I am very proud of him, his ability to resonate with people makes PwrX a rigger who knows how to get into emotions, an expert not only in technique but also in the relationship that is created with the rope..."
Wi_nd
"... his magic hands can do a lot of crazy things. His magnetic aura will make you do things you never thought of doing. His patience and calm voice will put you in your place. His energy will explore yours and find the deepest fantasies. His eyes will make you wet. His presence will wake up fears you didnt knew exists in you..."
"... and all of this you will take like a big gift in your life because PwrX is the best experience you will have in BDSM..."
"... and all of this you will take like a big gift in your life because PwrX is the best experience you will have in BDSM..."
BubblyGoddess
"... I felt an instant trust in his ability to guide me through ropes, which is rare for me. His presence was strong, and his eye contact balanced playfulness with safety, sparking my curiosity.
Although I mentally longed to surrender, my body tensed with the fear of letting a man close. PwrX quickly sensed this and used the right approach to help me ease my tension.
Thank you for creating a space where I was able to laugh, cry, scream and feel seen and safe along it all..."
Although I mentally longed to surrender, my body tensed with the fear of letting a man close. PwrX quickly sensed this and used the right approach to help me ease my tension.
Thank you for creating a space where I was able to laugh, cry, scream and feel seen and safe along it all..."
Sophie_Blue
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Where I live.
I you can find me in Murgle district of Ljubljana, characterized by single-family atrium houses in a green, quiet, and traffic-free suburb of Ljubljana.
The house has its own private parking space and offers excellent privacy.
Inside you will find a modern, clean, and well-equipped environment, air conditioning, an advanced lighting system, and background music will contribute to a unique experience.
It is possible to have coaching sessions in one of the cozy locals in Ljubljana's city center.
If you live abroad, meeting me can be a great occasion to visit Ljubljana, one of the most beautiful European capitals, and spend few days here.
In case you will decide to visit Ljubljana, beside the session you book I will be happy to show you the city.
For more informations: https://www.visitljubljana.com/en/
I can also travel to your destination, or book a dungeon in Ljubljana and other cities. Contact me for details.
The house has its own private parking space and offers excellent privacy.
Inside you will find a modern, clean, and well-equipped environment, air conditioning, an advanced lighting system, and background music will contribute to a unique experience.
It is possible to have coaching sessions in one of the cozy locals in Ljubljana's city center.
If you live abroad, meeting me can be a great occasion to visit Ljubljana, one of the most beautiful European capitals, and spend few days here.
In case you will decide to visit Ljubljana, beside the session you book I will be happy to show you the city.
For more informations: https://www.visitljubljana.com/en/
I can also travel to your destination, or book a dungeon in Ljubljana and other cities. Contact me for details.
I support the community.
In my life, I have frequented several BDSM communities in almost every country I have been to, met wonderful people, and always received a helping hand from the communities.
That is why I decided a few years ago to give my volunteer contribution to the communities.
I am a co-organizer of the Ljubljana Community Munch, the informal monthly event where anyone can participate and meet other kinksters.
For more information: https://openmunch.eu
I organize (almost) every week a free peer rope at my home in Ljubljana, open to every shibari enthusiast, be it a rigger, bunny, or just a curious person who wants to come and see and meet people in the kink world.
For more information: https://openmunch.eu/peer-rope
That is why I decided a few years ago to give my volunteer contribution to the communities.
I am a co-organizer of the Ljubljana Community Munch, the informal monthly event where anyone can participate and meet other kinksters.
For more information: https://openmunch.eu
I organize (almost) every week a free peer rope at my home in Ljubljana, open to every shibari enthusiast, be it a rigger, bunny, or just a curious person who wants to come and see and meet people in the kink world.
For more information: https://openmunch.eu/peer-rope